Friday, November 20, 2009

The Secret To Making Your Ex Return Your Phone Calls

Are there "magic" words or "trigger" words that you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?

I know it sounds hard to believe but there are words
that will nearly cast a spell on your ex and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your phone calls.

Interesting huh?...

I am going to share this secret with you because
this is one of the most popular questions I get;
from the over 30,000 subscribers just
like you that are trying to put their relationships
back together.

So, are you ready to have one will going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my phone calls?"


BUT...


WARNING!

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In the Magic Of Making Up, I will lay
out a complete easy to follow strategy.


If you use this technique by itself, without
an total plan, game plan, or strategy...you may
damage this relationship more than if
they would have never returned your call


What you definitely should NOT Say!


Before we get dive into the actual words you should use,
I think it is appropriate to tell you what message almost
never works.


and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

"Jim, please call me. This is the 5th
time I have called you. I HAVE to talk to you, now!"

And the EMERGENCY-

"Linda, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of these approaches?

So, I won't go on with this...

Now, let's get on with the magic.


How To Use A person's Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage.


Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

Curiosity &
Self Interest

And here's the BIG Big SECRET!

When you combine curiosity and self interest, you
have a formula that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you should say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

Using a friendly tone:

"Hi Jim. It's Kathy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you have done for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."

Can you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

Jim, will be hipnotized, he will not be able to resist!
"What did we do?"
We combined self interest and curiosity.
He will be thinking "What does she appreciate?"
And he feels good, it because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you make this phone call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
they (he/she) did that you appreciated.

It can be any little thing...but needs to
be believeable or plauseable.

But more importantly...


2nd Warning

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Please, please have an underlying game plan
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.

If you apply this technique with
no underlying plan and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly. You could end
up repeating the same patterns that led
to your brake up.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a Well defined PLAN!

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